What's a girl to do?

This is a question i ask myself more and more as time goes on. I have the family, i have the friends,i have the kids, and most importantly i have the Lord. He has rescued me from what was nothing like my life is today. But even after all that something is missing so what is a girl to do? i guess i should not make it a point to start searching for something or someone because like they say when your looking for something you won't find it but if you stop it will come to you. So patience is yet again playing a part in whatever lesson i have to learn right now in my life. But i do have to admit that i hope when this lesson is learned i will find myself forfilled and happy. If i were to imagine what that would look like there would definately be a man of my dreams in there somewhere. SO whats a girl to do? they say that true love exists out there even though i myself have never experienced it. So what do you say about love? is it real and can it happen?